Motherhood is not a universal experience. 

There are similarities in this experience between women who choose to be mothers, but every mother's experience is unique to her. 

This blog is my experience, my hot takes, my reality. 

I wasn't sure how I was going to start this blog honestly. & then one night I found myself (after one too many sleepless nights) pouring all my emotions into my notes app at 2am because keeping them inside made me feel like I was going to explode. Aside from doom scrolling on tik tok and commiserating with videos of other parents who felt like they were failing upwards, writing was the one thing that made me feel centered. 

This is not an advice blog, and maybe it won't ever be? Because my purpose with writing has never been to instruct, but rather relate and connect. 

If you followed my OG blog, the similarities you'll find here are honesty and vulnerability.  The two things that have pulled me through this wild experience are exactly what I want to give back. 

I mean that's how we all get through this right… seeing the ones who have done it before us and those doing it alongside us as a kind of distant army wading through the waters in our own right.  

So to summarize, this is me. I’m still Care. I'm just having this insane human experience and letting it uproot every fiber of me. 

So if you have been with me since '2 punk 2 care'... I hope you stay with me on my journey 2 mom.